Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What kinds of people do you most enjoy seeing?
A: My favourite moments in and out of the dungeon are with authentic individuals who value my time and attention. I find that I have the best chemistry with submissives who are earnest and communicative. Your body's size, shape, colour, or gender are not terribly important to me, but attendance to my protocol and direction is very important when attempting to gain favour!
Q: I don't live in or visit SF, but I would love to see you. Are you planning to visit my city any time soon?
A: I travel regularly to major west coast cities, Toronto and Paris. Other travels are announced on my blog. If you'd like to be notified when I plan a trip near you, send me an email and I will keep you up to date. I am also available by special arrangement to travel to or with you, domestic or international.
Q: Discretion is a major concern for me. How will you preserve our privacy?
A: Our mutual discretion and confidentiality is very important to me. Booking, confirmation, and meeting protocols are all designed with prudence in mind to protect the connection we share. Our phone contact, email exchanges, and any information about you and our sessions are all either encrypted or password protected and deleted promptly. My session environments are always private with an inconspicuous exterior. You should be, too.
Q: May I bring or send you a gift, tip, token, or other consideration?
A: I appreciate meaningful gifts but discourage empty purchasing for purchasing's sake. If you feel moved to bring or send a present, please consider my values: local, beautiful, sustainable, feminine, glamorous, artisan, vintage, useful. I maintain a wishlist of books, treats, wardrobe and gear I would like to add to my collection. Some things I would particularly love to receive:
Theatre or museum memberships
Gift certificates to favourite restaurants in my city or in cities I am planning to visit
A leopard-print girdle from Secrets in Lace
Ethically produced cashmere/angora sweaters, shawls
Curious plants, botanical treasures
Fine chocolates and sweets, organic seasonal fruit
Q: I had such a fantastic experience with you. Where can I post a review?
A. I do not participate in online review culture. If you'd like to share your raves or reflections about our time together, I encourage you to send them to me via email. Posting elsewhere (my blog, message boards) is by mutual consent.
Q: I want to apply for a position as your personal submissive, houseboy, slave, or sissymaid. How do I do this?
A: Begin by presenting yourself properly and explaining both what you have to offer and what you would hope to find in service to me. I do occasionally accept new personal servants and pets, but I believe in building relationships of trust around servitude to further enrich the experience for us both.
Q: Is there anything else I should know before we meet?
A: When arriving for an appointment, you should be neither early nor late but right on time. Arrive dressed in casual or business casual style, with any conspicuous items concealed discreetly.
Q: I don't like pain/bondage/roleplay/feminization/humiliation. Does our time together have to include it?
A: My favourite moments in and out of the dungeon are with authentic individuals who value my time and attention. I find that I have the best chemistry with submissives who are earnest and communicative. Your body's size, shape, colour, or gender are not terribly important to me, but attendance to my protocol and direction is very important when attempting to gain favour!
Q: I don't live in or visit SF, but I would love to see you. Are you planning to visit my city any time soon?
A: I travel regularly to major west coast cities, Toronto and Paris. Other travels are announced on my blog. If you'd like to be notified when I plan a trip near you, send me an email and I will keep you up to date. I am also available by special arrangement to travel to or with you, domestic or international.
Q: Discretion is a major concern for me. How will you preserve our privacy?
A: Our mutual discretion and confidentiality is very important to me. Booking, confirmation, and meeting protocols are all designed with prudence in mind to protect the connection we share. Our phone contact, email exchanges, and any information about you and our sessions are all either encrypted or password protected and deleted promptly. My session environments are always private with an inconspicuous exterior. You should be, too.
Q: May I bring or send you a gift, tip, token, or other consideration?
A: I appreciate meaningful gifts but discourage empty purchasing for purchasing's sake. If you feel moved to bring or send a present, please consider my values: local, beautiful, sustainable, feminine, glamorous, artisan, vintage, useful. I maintain a wishlist of books, treats, wardrobe and gear I would like to add to my collection. Some things I would particularly love to receive:
Theatre or museum memberships
Gift certificates to favourite restaurants in my city or in cities I am planning to visit
A leopard-print girdle from Secrets in Lace
Ethically produced cashmere/angora sweaters, shawls
Curious plants, botanical treasures
Fine chocolates and sweets, organic seasonal fruit
Q: I had such a fantastic experience with you. Where can I post a review?
A. I do not participate in online review culture. If you'd like to share your raves or reflections about our time together, I encourage you to send them to me via email. Posting elsewhere (my blog, message boards) is by mutual consent.
Q: I want to apply for a position as your personal submissive, houseboy, slave, or sissymaid. How do I do this?
A: Begin by presenting yourself properly and explaining both what you have to offer and what you would hope to find in service to me. I do occasionally accept new personal servants and pets, but I believe in building relationships of trust around servitude to further enrich the experience for us both.
Q: Is there anything else I should know before we meet?
A: When arriving for an appointment, you should be neither early nor late but right on time. Arrive dressed in casual or business casual style, with any conspicuous items concealed discreetly.
Q: I don't like pain/bondage/roleplay/feminization/humiliation. Does our time together have to include it?
A: Our time together must please me. Generally one or more of the elements above will be involved, although the only non-negotiable element is my ultimate authority. I do enjoy fetish play outside of a Dominant/submissive context, as well.
